I think I forgot to breathe during the last two weeks. It is has been very busy. Jess had his feeding tube changed with no problems except he got a little sick to his stomach horseback riding the same day. We think he may have eaten a little too soon. He is riding a new horse at the arena and we are very grateful to it's owner. We love Camo but he is getting pretty old to have a big guy like Jess riding him. We had Jess weighed and he weighs 158 lbs so he is staying at a good weight. I also met with his nutritionalist that helped me set up the formula that I mix for his feeding tube. She just added a few "brain" supplements and said through her research we were still doing the right mix. Jess does look very healthy. We should all be eating what he does!
Jess' Grandma Juliann is here from Cleveland and we are really enjoying her company! We are having a birthday party tonight for everyone because we don't get to celebrate our birthday parties together. Little Jahara will have fun with all the candles! Unfortunately, it is very smoky here because of some nearby forest fires so we haven't been able to go up north to some of our favorite mountain places. Jess gave her a big smile when she walked in which made her trip. We had a couple of cold nights and now as I look out the window the trees are already starting to turn. I sure hope we have a long warm fall before the snow falls again.
Jess is back in school. I had a meeting with all the team players that help Jess at school and they have a great program set up for him. He will attend a Psyche for Success class again and they set up a workstation in his old computer class so he can work on the computer programs we are experimenting with. We are losing Susan, the Occupational Therapist, but we are gaining a new OT, Catherine. Amanda is working full time for the school now but still gets to be with Jess when he is there. She now gets all the school benefits so it was a good move for her. We will miss her time with us. She has taken Jess to two football games though and she said he "lights up" when he gets there. Several people stopped by to say hello and gave him a hug and his basketball coaches stood right beside him and engaged him in their conversations. We are so lucky to live in such a giving community.
Daniel's last day was Thursday. It was a tough day for me. He has become an important part of our family and we will truly miss him. It is not easy to allow someone to come into your life, trust them with your car, your home, and more importantly your son who cannot tell you about his day. But, Daniel, I would trust with my life. He is a wonderful, funny, caring, gentle soul and we love him very much. We thank you for the last two years and wish you the very best always, Daniel! We are having a little going away party for him tomorrow so we all get one last hug!
Happy Anniversary Joey and Angela! It was a year yesterday since we shared your day. We love and miss you both!
Saturday, September 2, 2006
Sunday, August 20, 2006
August 20th, 2006
Monday of this week was very exciting. I received a call from John (Occupational Therapist). He was all excited because Jess had held his head up by himself for one minute and thirty seconds. It was such great news to start our week! Tracy (Speech Therapist) has been working with Jess on the switches (hi & see you later) and he is doing well moving his hand to hit them. Chris recorded the messages on the switches and it sounds so much like Jess. She is also working on the new computer program with him on a lap top computer. Chris is building Jess a new desk top table in his room so that he can fit under it in his wheelchair. We are so lucky to have such a talented builder in the family. Robby called to say he is finished cleaning up the viruses on Jess' computer but he wasn't able to save much of the old stuff that was on it. Jess will just have to start over again. We took a drive to Twin Falls yesterday (Jess, Chris, Mom, Dad and I) and ordered a flat screen television for Jess that will also serve as a computer monitor. It is 32 inches so we think he will be able to see it much better than a regular computer screen.
Jess also had a visit from Kelsey. He was in awe as usual when he looked at her. She stopped by to say goodbye as she is on her way to Arizona to college. We wish her the best always. School starts here on the 28th. Jess will be attending high school again. Most of his friends are all in college now but being in a school environment is good for Jess. He needs to be around kids close to his age. So, we know he will make some new friends.
Chris' mom from Cleveland is coming for a visit also that week. It's been a year since we spent time with her and we are all excited to see her. We are really bummed out that it will be Daniel's last week. It seems we always have "the good" and "the not so good". I don't like to report about "the not so good" but we all need to send some prayers for some special people. Joey's mother-in-law (Angela's mom, Janice) received news that her cancer is back so we need to send her and all the family in Minnesota some really good and positive energy! We are all praying for her wellness and that it will go back in remission! Also, Amanda received bad news that her stepdad was in a motorcycle accident on Wednesday so she left on Thursday to help her mom care for her dad. He's going to be ok but suffered an awful broken leg. And, Jess' best friend Curtie is going in for some surgery next week. Please say a few of those wonderful prayers for all of these special people that are part of Jess' life.
Jess also had a visit from Kelsey. He was in awe as usual when he looked at her. She stopped by to say goodbye as she is on her way to Arizona to college. We wish her the best always. School starts here on the 28th. Jess will be attending high school again. Most of his friends are all in college now but being in a school environment is good for Jess. He needs to be around kids close to his age. So, we know he will make some new friends.
Chris' mom from Cleveland is coming for a visit also that week. It's been a year since we spent time with her and we are all excited to see her. We are really bummed out that it will be Daniel's last week. It seems we always have "the good" and "the not so good". I don't like to report about "the not so good" but we all need to send some prayers for some special people. Joey's mother-in-law (Angela's mom, Janice) received news that her cancer is back so we need to send her and all the family in Minnesota some really good and positive energy! We are all praying for her wellness and that it will go back in remission! Also, Amanda received bad news that her stepdad was in a motorcycle accident on Wednesday so she left on Thursday to help her mom care for her dad. He's going to be ok but suffered an awful broken leg. And, Jess' best friend Curtie is going in for some surgery next week. Please say a few of those wonderful prayers for all of these special people that are part of Jess' life.
Saturday, August 12, 2006
August 12, 2006
Jess, Amanda and I made our trip to Boise yesterday to visit the United Cerebral Palsy Lending Library. Jess was pretty sleepy by the time we got there. I think the 3 hour drive was pretty tiring. But, it was well worth the trip. We did get him in front of a computer with a program that would show him pictures going across the screen like a basketball or a piece of pizza and then all of a sudden it would stop and show a picture of the mouse. It would say "hit the mouse button" over and over until Jess hit a big red button that took the place of a regular mouse. He caught on and with a little coaxing hit the button for about 15 minutes. When he got too tired there was a guy sitting next to us who was so annoyed with the voice asking Jess to hit the mouse button over and over that he reached over and hit the button for him! It was pretty cute. We came home with two computer programs and 3 switches. We can program the switches to speak and he just has to touch them to activate the message. We thought since he is starting school we could program one to say "hi" and one to say "bye" so when friends say hi to Jess in the halls he can reply (we hope) by hitting the switch. The lady (Kathy) who helped us was very encouraging. She said that this was just the beginning stages of helping Jess to do a lot more communicating. She said once he realizes he has some control in his environment he will want more. So, now I am looking for a good computer workstation that Jess can fit under. He is so tall in his wheelchair that he won't fit under a regular desk. I also need to get him a larger screen since we still question how well he can see. It is so wonderful to have an organization that will lend you some different assistive technology devices to try before you buy because they are very expensive.
I can't believe school starts the end of this month. Summer has gone by so fast. Jess and I went for a long walk on the bike path today. I love being able to be outside with him. Chris made a quick trip to Dallas, TX and we miss him. I can do most everything for Jess by myself but I sure hope he doesn't grow much taller. We still keep hearing that prayers are being said for Jess across the country. We appreciate each and every one!!! God bless!
I can't believe school starts the end of this month. Summer has gone by so fast. Jess and I went for a long walk on the bike path today. I love being able to be outside with him. Chris made a quick trip to Dallas, TX and we miss him. I can do most everything for Jess by myself but I sure hope he doesn't grow much taller. We still keep hearing that prayers are being said for Jess across the country. We appreciate each and every one!!! God bless!
Thursday, July 20, 2006
July 20, 2006
More good news!!! Jess' EEG showed "NO" seizure activity. Yippee! We are very happy to get that information back. It's like I said, "sometimes Jess just likes talking to the angels". I knew he was not having seizures. The neurologist also said that the "unorganized" wave lengths that showed on the EEG over a year ago are now "organized" (not sure what that means but I think it sounds very good).
Jess also had another visit from a good friend, Mikey, this week. Thanks for stopping by Mikey...it means a lot to all of us. And, Amanda was able to get Jess to blow on a whistle and actually make a sound. She also was able to get him to recognize colors on our communication board. She would give him two color choices and ask him to look at a specific color and he would look at the correct one. We are looking for more and more improvements...one day at a time! Thanks for checking in!
Jess also had another visit from a good friend, Mikey, this week. Thanks for stopping by Mikey...it means a lot to all of us. And, Amanda was able to get Jess to blow on a whistle and actually make a sound. She also was able to get him to recognize colors on our communication board. She would give him two color choices and ask him to look at a specific color and he would look at the correct one. We are looking for more and more improvements...one day at a time! Thanks for checking in!
Sunday, July 16, 2006
July 16, 2006
Lots of good things happened this week. We got the approval to purchase the turning mattress. They are actually going to pay for it. Yippee! It has been so wonderful to sleep in the bed next to Jess and know that every 30 minutes he will be repositioned. We were waking every hour worrying whether it was time to turn him. Now he is gently turned from side to side and we don't have pull on him and wake him during the night. Persistence pervails! We still take turns sleeping in his room because...we are afraid not to. Thank you to all who helped make it happen.
Jess had a visitor from his good friend, Kyle on Friday. They spent a lot of good times together while growing up. Kyle stayed about an hour and a half and just talked to Jess about old times. I wasn't home but Amanda said Jess was listening so intently and really seemed to enjoy his company. Thanks, Kyle!
I received a newsletter this week from a Parent Network organization for children with disabilities and there was an article in it titled "He Talks with His Eyes". I followed up with a call to the author who is from the University of Idaho's Assitive Technology Project. She was more than happy to talk to me about the possibilities of Jess being able to use some kind of device to communicate. We are going to set up a meeting in Boise to assess Jess' abilities. I have been praying for help in this area and guess what shows up! YOU JUST CAN'T GIVE UP ON WHAT YOU WANT!
It has taken me 2 years to get the courage to take Jess' computer to someone to have them get rid of all of the viruses. Joey said it would be best to wipe out his hard drive and start over. I wanted to save anything important or memorable on his computer when he is able to use it again so I have been afraid to do something that drastic. But, we may get to hook it up to some assistive technology so it became necessary to make the decision. Jess liked to visit a computer consulting business downtown and talk computers with the owner Robby so I took his computer to him. Anyway, before I did, Daniel had just returned home with Jess and was unloading him from the van. I looked into the van while Daniel was unhooking the wheelchair and told Jess I was going to take his computer into have the viruses removed but I needed his ok. I asked him to give me a thumbs up if that was ok with him. I watched his hand and arm start to wiggle and all of a sudden he raised his arm and put his thumb straight into the air. I started to cry! He wants to use his computer and I am determined to find a way for him to do it. He wants to communicate.
We took Jess in to have the EEG monitor hooked up. He had 16 wires glued to his head for 48 hours. I don't think he liked it much. We had to monitor any strange spaced out look or heavy breathing and then hit a button. We also had to write down what time he was doing activities. I think we only hit the button 6 times and some were questionable. We want to rule out any seizure activity because that seems to be the first thing any medical professional asks us. Jess is not on any medication and that is a very unusual occurrence for someone with a brain injury. Until Jess can tell us what type of reaction he is having to a drug we just don't want to subject him to the side effects. We also got good news from Jamie. Jahara was accepted to the Boise State University preschool. So, while Jamie attends college Jahara will be in one of the best preschools in Boise. It was truly a good week!
Jess had a visitor from his good friend, Kyle on Friday. They spent a lot of good times together while growing up. Kyle stayed about an hour and a half and just talked to Jess about old times. I wasn't home but Amanda said Jess was listening so intently and really seemed to enjoy his company. Thanks, Kyle!
I received a newsletter this week from a Parent Network organization for children with disabilities and there was an article in it titled "He Talks with His Eyes". I followed up with a call to the author who is from the University of Idaho's Assitive Technology Project. She was more than happy to talk to me about the possibilities of Jess being able to use some kind of device to communicate. We are going to set up a meeting in Boise to assess Jess' abilities. I have been praying for help in this area and guess what shows up! YOU JUST CAN'T GIVE UP ON WHAT YOU WANT!
It has taken me 2 years to get the courage to take Jess' computer to someone to have them get rid of all of the viruses. Joey said it would be best to wipe out his hard drive and start over. I wanted to save anything important or memorable on his computer when he is able to use it again so I have been afraid to do something that drastic. But, we may get to hook it up to some assistive technology so it became necessary to make the decision. Jess liked to visit a computer consulting business downtown and talk computers with the owner Robby so I took his computer to him. Anyway, before I did, Daniel had just returned home with Jess and was unloading him from the van. I looked into the van while Daniel was unhooking the wheelchair and told Jess I was going to take his computer into have the viruses removed but I needed his ok. I asked him to give me a thumbs up if that was ok with him. I watched his hand and arm start to wiggle and all of a sudden he raised his arm and put his thumb straight into the air. I started to cry! He wants to use his computer and I am determined to find a way for him to do it. He wants to communicate.
We took Jess in to have the EEG monitor hooked up. He had 16 wires glued to his head for 48 hours. I don't think he liked it much. We had to monitor any strange spaced out look or heavy breathing and then hit a button. We also had to write down what time he was doing activities. I think we only hit the button 6 times and some were questionable. We want to rule out any seizure activity because that seems to be the first thing any medical professional asks us. Jess is not on any medication and that is a very unusual occurrence for someone with a brain injury. Until Jess can tell us what type of reaction he is having to a drug we just don't want to subject him to the side effects. We also got good news from Jamie. Jahara was accepted to the Boise State University preschool. So, while Jamie attends college Jahara will be in one of the best preschools in Boise. It was truly a good week!
Saturday, July 8, 2006
July 8, 2006
Jess had a great birthday. We were going to stay low key but our friends decided Jess and the family needed a little celebration. His best friend Curtie and his brother Carson came over with their parents. Paul made his awesome barbecued ribs and corn. His sister made him a pudding cake...he was able to even have a few bites. And little Jahara helped him blow out the candles and open his presents. Grandma & Grandpa were part of the gang too. He got cards from his family in Ohio and calls from his brother, his Aunt Jenn and his friend Dustin. All in all I think he really enjoyed his 19th birthday. The next day we took Jess to the 4th of July parade. When the firetrucks went by we reminisced when Jess and his friend Billy rode on them in the parade when they were just little guys. How time flys!
He had an alert and good week in therapies. Amanda gets such good responses when working with his eyes and when she asks him to respond. She started helping him draw on his big clip board again. He loved to draw so we hope one of these days we will see a wonderful painting again.
We had an appointment with a neurologist on Friday. She comes over from Boise a couple of times a week. We talked to her about ruling out the possiblity of Jess having seizures by hooking him up to a pocket EEG machine for 48 hours. It is very common for someone with a brain injury to have seizures but Amanda and I are sure he is not one of them. The times when Jess stares off into space and I say "Jess is talking to the angels again" could possibly be times when he is having a slight seizure. He will be hooked up next Wednesday and we will monitor different movements and eye gazes for the 48 hours. Seizures can inhibit him from progressing. Jess opened his hands, moved his foot, blinked two blinks for yes and tried to shrug his shoulder for her. After letting her know all we were doing for Jess I asked her if there was anything we were missing or if she had any suggestions for us. She smiled and said after reading through all the information I supplied her with she thinks she was the one who learned a lot from us.
Amanda stayed with Jess for a few hours today which allowed Chris and I to go for a wonderful hike. We both have realized how far we have drifted apart since Jess' accident and decided we needed to do a little work on spending some quality time together before we become another awful statistic. We have been receiving some interesting messages lately from total strangers so we decided we needed to take heed. We were warned in the beginning that not many relationships survive when they are faced with such a challenging tragedy in their lives. It's easy to take out all the fear and hurt out on each other. But, we realize that Jess needs us both and we need each other so letting go and spending some time together will only benefit us all. It was an incredibly beautiful day and the wild flowers were exquisite. Of course a hike with Chris is never just a "walk in the park"...it is always an adventure into the wild. We stopped on the way home and pulled out the side by side bike in the back of his truck and went for a little ride on the bike path. We rode to the park where the Dahli Lama put in the prayer wheel last year. It is a very spiritual place. We spent a few moments in silent and said a few prayers there after saying a few more on top of the mountain when we were hiking. We thanked God for the constant healing of Jess' brain. We thanked Him for a lot of things. We are trying to be ok with where we are right now. We just need to love each other and know that everything is in it's right place.
He had an alert and good week in therapies. Amanda gets such good responses when working with his eyes and when she asks him to respond. She started helping him draw on his big clip board again. He loved to draw so we hope one of these days we will see a wonderful painting again.
We had an appointment with a neurologist on Friday. She comes over from Boise a couple of times a week. We talked to her about ruling out the possiblity of Jess having seizures by hooking him up to a pocket EEG machine for 48 hours. It is very common for someone with a brain injury to have seizures but Amanda and I are sure he is not one of them. The times when Jess stares off into space and I say "Jess is talking to the angels again" could possibly be times when he is having a slight seizure. He will be hooked up next Wednesday and we will monitor different movements and eye gazes for the 48 hours. Seizures can inhibit him from progressing. Jess opened his hands, moved his foot, blinked two blinks for yes and tried to shrug his shoulder for her. After letting her know all we were doing for Jess I asked her if there was anything we were missing or if she had any suggestions for us. She smiled and said after reading through all the information I supplied her with she thinks she was the one who learned a lot from us.
Amanda stayed with Jess for a few hours today which allowed Chris and I to go for a wonderful hike. We both have realized how far we have drifted apart since Jess' accident and decided we needed to do a little work on spending some quality time together before we become another awful statistic. We have been receiving some interesting messages lately from total strangers so we decided we needed to take heed. We were warned in the beginning that not many relationships survive when they are faced with such a challenging tragedy in their lives. It's easy to take out all the fear and hurt out on each other. But, we realize that Jess needs us both and we need each other so letting go and spending some time together will only benefit us all. It was an incredibly beautiful day and the wild flowers were exquisite. Of course a hike with Chris is never just a "walk in the park"...it is always an adventure into the wild. We stopped on the way home and pulled out the side by side bike in the back of his truck and went for a little ride on the bike path. We rode to the park where the Dahli Lama put in the prayer wheel last year. It is a very spiritual place. We spent a few moments in silent and said a few prayers there after saying a few more on top of the mountain when we were hiking. We thanked God for the constant healing of Jess' brain. We thanked Him for a lot of things. We are trying to be ok with where we are right now. We just need to love each other and know that everything is in it's right place.
Sunday, July 2, 2006
July 2, 2006
Good morning! Jess has been doing fine for the last two weeks. Amanda was gone for a week on her honeymoon. She returned this week and I know Jess was happy to see her. So were we. She always brings a smile and such a positive attitude. Daniel has been beaming...they are having a baby girl. He is staying until the end of August and then they are moving to the east coast. Both Amanda and Daniel have been having dreams of Jess walking and talking. What a good sign!
We were given a DVD to watch called The Secret. It is a wonderful reminder of "The Law of Attraction". I recommend it to everyone. Here is the link to view or buy the DVD http://www.whatisthesecret.tv/. It really helped Chris and I remember how powerful our thoughts and feelings are. Jess will walk and talk again. We need all of you to only think those thoughts with us. We are all pure energy and with positive thoughts and energy coming our way....Jess will heal his brain.
Tomorrow is Jess' 19th birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY SON! How lucky we are to have him in our lives for 19 years. We decided to just hang out and celebrate his birthday here at home. Jamie and Jahara (who just turned 3 this week) will be home and Jess' friend Curtis with his mom and dad are coming over. If anyone would like to call and wish him a Happy Birthday we can put the phone to his ear. His eyes light up and his eyebrows raise and last night when his brother Joey was talking to him he looked like he even had tears in his eyes. We want to wish everyone a Happy 4th of July! We are blessed to live in such a wonderful country.
We were given a DVD to watch called The Secret. It is a wonderful reminder of "The Law of Attraction". I recommend it to everyone. Here is the link to view or buy the DVD http://www.whatisthesecret.tv/. It really helped Chris and I remember how powerful our thoughts and feelings are. Jess will walk and talk again. We need all of you to only think those thoughts with us. We are all pure energy and with positive thoughts and energy coming our way....Jess will heal his brain.
Tomorrow is Jess' 19th birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY SON! How lucky we are to have him in our lives for 19 years. We decided to just hang out and celebrate his birthday here at home. Jamie and Jahara (who just turned 3 this week) will be home and Jess' friend Curtis with his mom and dad are coming over. If anyone would like to call and wish him a Happy Birthday we can put the phone to his ear. His eyes light up and his eyebrows raise and last night when his brother Joey was talking to him he looked like he even had tears in his eyes. We want to wish everyone a Happy 4th of July! We are blessed to live in such a wonderful country.
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